I find that I fail to understand why people who are otherwise warm, friendly and would ordinarily hate to offend believe that when it comes to religion, that of others and not their own, open criticism of the latter (or attempts to undermine certain beliefs within faith systems, if not the creed as a whole), is deemed acceptable. I do not suggest that we self-censor but a little tolerance and empathy would not go amiss in many situations. I also find that self-reflection could help to avoid many misunderstandings and offences given. Essentially; question whether in the same situation you would be so open to criticism of your own faith (or lack of faith as the case may be). It is a rare person that would be so accepting. I believe that most people who are fast in their highhandedness and hypocrisy to state why another’s religion is wrong will be the first to complain when it is done to them or in relation to their faith.
Moreover, the timing of such ‘debates’ should never be dismissed. Specifically, today is Christmas, questioning Christianity, the celebration of Christmas and what Jesus is seen to represent and who he is meant to be within that religion is not only completely tactless but it is also incredibly offensive. Nevertheless, this is exactly what is happening. A friend was offended by precisely this and questioned, very rightly, whether the same individual who posted videos scathing of the festival and of the religion as a whole would be receptive to criticism of Islam on Eid. As a Muslim I can safely state that most other individuals who share my faith would not accept it at all. As a group we are largely sensitive to insults, perceived and real.
Why are we so dismissive of the feelings of others when they do not match our own?
Moral of the story? Let us all work toward being open to other ideals. Religion is always going to be a sensitive issue and if, upon consideration, you find that you cannot take back what you are giving out: stop.
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